Listen, I just want to start this off by saying that everyone’s romantic endeavors are unique. There are probably parts of your story that I don’t know and don’t venture to guess.
God, I hope there is more to your story.
From what I heard between the Prospect Avenue and 96th Street stops, you are having some serious “female” problems. And I discerned that there were upwards to three different women with whom you have relations – perhaps this is the heart of the problem?
As I was listening, I started to hope that maybe all these ladies were aware of each other, that they were open to this polyamorous relationship. For all I knew, you were such a stud that all the ladies were willing to share you.
You dashed my hopes and dreams for you though when you started your next sentence with:
And then she found out about the other female…
Dude, stop referring to your girlfriends as females.
Perhaps you don’t get that women get invested in the men they are dating. You are not simply a sex piece (though you probably think yourself to be a Sex God and I’m sure you are with all the practice it seems you’re getting). In fact, sex is only a small part of it, these women wanted a companion who would face the world with them. Someone who would have their back everyday.
And you rolled up and made promises that you had no intention of keeping and wonder now why they are so upset when they realize you’ve dashed their dreams? Dude, I feel like you didn’t need a woman’s insight for this…
Wait, did I just hear you correctly?
If I were a king, I could have as many woman as possible in the hopes of getting a son.
So, you wanted a harem? Guy, you aren’t a king, you don’t need a son to guarantee your happiness and it doesn’t seem like you’re ready to father a child.
Also, have you seen Game of Thrones? Everyone knows that a king who has a son out of wedlock only gets partial claim to his kingdom. Ask Ramsay Bolton or Jon Snow about that one…
I’m sorry you are having lady problems but it seems self inflicted to me. Stop being a man-whore; be truthful to the woman your with (note that this is singular); and treat her with respect.
Best of luck with your romantic endeavors,